Everything is exactly as it should be

If any of you tend to worry about trying to fix/change people or situations because there’s something wrong, then here’s a post for you.

I always tend to look for something wrong. I pick up on the energy quite easily if there is something wrong. And then I want to be the super hero and help and fix it. I take it on as my own and I use up all my energy trying to fix a person or situation.

However I’m learning that by actually asking someone ‘how are you really’, its initiating there’s something wrong, so I basically invite that something wrong into the space. I attract that negative energy because im looking for it, so I can try to fix it.

Perhaps I need to work on why I need to fix everything around me, to make me feel better about myself? To make me feel needed perhaps. I know many people who try to fix things, people who stay in unhappy relationship because they can fix a partner, people who foster so they can fix a child etc.

If this sounds like you, take into account something a lovely friend of mine said –

‘Everything is perfect. Everything is exactly as it’s meant to be, so there’s nothing wrong. therefore there’s nothing to be fixed. Everything is happening for a reason.’

Something I’m definitely going to be working on 🙂

Good luck